my side job is now my real job !

NEVER GIVE UP ON SOMETHING YOU DREAM ABOUT EACH AND EVERY DAY!

I never did ! And I am so thrilled to let everyone know that Couture Cowgirl N Co will no longer be my side job but my day in and day out dedication to the industry I am so very blessed to be a part of and the amazing folks who make it all happen!

Public Relations ~ Marketing ~ Freelance ~ and Motivational Speaking Too 

Lucky to team up with Sara Mills Landis  ~ I could never do this on my own!

Feel free to check out our website or like us  on Facebook and follow our adventures - check out our amazing clients and inquire about what we can do for you !!

I believe we have found our niche in focusing on small businesses and individuals who need someone to help them "POP" :) With an eclectic flair and a different twist to normal ~ Sara and I are very dedicated to making everyone feel special and stand out !

I am a living testament - if you love it enough stick with it until it happens!

Saddle up and let the adventure begin!!!

Agriculture Advocacy Has No Age Limit - Lets Do This!!

I don’t blog a ton, probably should do it more but never seem to have the time! However when I do I like to visit with y’all about the experiences I have in my adventures.  Recently I went to Utah to visit with the Utah Farm Women. While there I had the opportunity to meet a young woman – we’ ll call her Miss B! I fell in love with her! She is all that an agriculture advocate should be – committed to her farm, excited about the future, determined to tell the story to consumers, focused on the good of it all in despite of the challenges…………………………………and the list goes on. 

During our visits Miss B  and I discussed how some of the more seasoned members of their group thought perhaps they might not have a voice – PHOOEY   (not sure that is how you spell it but you get it)   Talking about what we do has no age limit – ever. 

Michele Payne Knoper said it best in her new book “No More Food Fights” – Much of the social media landscape has to do with mindset not age.  I could not agree more –  and not only in social media , I think we can take it further and say that the advocacy landscape has to do with mindset not age.

What matters to you as a farmer or rancher?  What is important to your farm or ranch?  How would you talk to friends across the dinner table?  You all have done that a million times – why not talk to others just as if you were explaining something to friends?  Be transparent, be believable!  There is no age limit on your experiences. Some of us have had more experiences than others and quite honestly I believe that makes us a better story teller of the farm or ranch!!

My message is simple – Advocacy has no age limit – follow what you know you must do to represent the things you believe in.   We are all in this together!  JUST GET OUT AND DO IT – WE NEED EVERYONE !!!!

And yep I have already come up with my next blog - Things I've Learned from a Rodeo Clown !

oooooooo I am on a roll now !!!  better catch it while I can !

Winning is Everything.......... Really

I have the grand opportunity of helping lots of young people with their livestock projects. It is something I am truly in love with.  As a young person I was quite competitive so when my friends children started getting old enough to show I could not wait.  Show Auntie ! Yep that is me ! I wrote this awhile back for a junior livestock magazine but thought it might be appropriate now to share with all of you on my blog.

When you read the title of today’s blog I am thinking your first reaction will be – What ?  Celeste are you crazy?  Winning is not everything! Isnt that what we try to teach our children and isnt that what many of our parents have tried to instill in us?  Well a winning ATTITUDE  is everything !  The ole saying its not if you win or lose it is how you play the game is so very true especially l in the show ring.

As many of you probably know by now I love to read, I read all sorts of things and when I find something I find interesting or that I feel beneficial I love to share it in my blog  for all of you to be able to enjoy.  Recently I came across this great piece about promoting self esteem in kids.  I believe that if you promote self esteem then kids will have a winning attitude no matter what they place in the show ring.  Krissi Marx is a freelance writer and talks about ways to promote the value in kids. I am not a parent but I was raised by some great ones and they instilled in me good things.  As a young person I found that by having a good relationship with my parents only made me better.  I am certainly not hear to preach to all of you parents about how to “parent” but thinking this was definitely worth  a share~ 

Ways to Promote Self-Esteem

What exactly is self esteem? Self Esteem is an intricate balance of positive beliefs and emotions, combined with an accurate perception of personal abilities and a sense of being loved by others. Internal and external factors influence its development. As a parent, you can promote self-esteem in your children by influencing their internal perceptions and providing a positive, nurturing environment.

1. Communication

Your tone, feedback, phrasing and body language affect your child's self-concept. Be honest with your child, but frame your feedback in a positive manner. Your encouragement and acknowledgment of his efforts benefit his self-esteem. Instead of telling him to work harder if he fails at something, tell him you're proud of the work he put into it, as recommended by KidsHealth. Challenge any negative statements he makes about himself, as well as negative beliefs. For example, if he says, "I'm not good at making friends," ask him to tell you about the friends he has, and about the times he made a new friend. Show him affection with hugs, pats on the back or a kiss on the cheek. This reinforces to him that he's loved.

2. Modeling

In a child's eyes, her parents or caregivers are the primary example of appropriate behavior. She initially learns how to interact with the world by observing and listening to them. Being a model of someone who has healthy self-esteem shows her the appropriate methods of building and maintaining it. This includes resolving conflicts effectively, cooperating with others, managing emotions and expressing a positive attitude. Address your own self-esteem issues as needed so that you can serve as a good example.

3. Activities

Personal accomplishments and positive interactions with others help a child develop confidence in her abilities and self-image. By helping her set and achieve personal goals, such as a good grade in school, she learns that she's capable of achievement. Goal plans also teach her how to overcome barriers, which further boosts her confidence. Engage her in group games and activities in which children cooperate rather than compete. KidsHealth suggests a partnership between an older and younger child in a mentoring program, as both children benefit psychologically from the interaction

Celebrate the Good Of Agriculture ~ Happy Ag Week!

Ag Day Word Fun - Word cloud - WordItOut - Fun with a Word Cloud - check out my creation!

Celebrating the Good in American Agriculture ~ Thank you Mom and Dad for giving me a life that is worth Celebrating !  Hats off to those who live it each and every day!!! 

My Day on a Kansas Farm

My speaking adventures take me to a lot of amazing places, most recently to Kansas- I got the opportunity to spend a couple days on a Kansas Cattle Farm.  I was in love.  For those who know me know I love Middle America, I love the simple life of day to day chores and family values. I love the opportunity to wear my “ chore clothes” and no makeup and a ball cap.     Climbing into the tractor cab, feeding cows and calves, hauling water, checking cows getting ready to calve, having a warm lunch at grandmas – it was the perfect setting for a perfect day and I was in heaven.

I was on a big farm that spread miles across the Kansas prairie, yet it was still a family farm. No hired hands just mom and dad and the kids getting after it day after day. Working hard, doing what they had to do to juggle their day to make it all work. 

I wish everyone, all of our consumers, could visit a family farm, and realize that sometimes a family farm is a big farm with all the values and the integrity and the honest hard work of what they only a small farm possesses.  Cause sometimes a small farm becomes successful and grows up. 

A Dream is a Wish your Heart makes ~

A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you're fast asleep
In dreams you lose your heartaches
Whatever you wish for, you keep
Have faith in your dreams and someday
Your rainbow will come smiling thru
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you keep on believing
the dream that you wish will come true

This weekend I had the grand opportunity to take my four year old niece ( if you ask her almost 5 ) to Disney on Ice.  What a spectacular show !  Two hours filled with twirling and dancing prince and princesses on ice skates. Music Galore and beautiful costumes!  It was so much fun.  My little Paige sat in her seat and watched with intent the entire show while munching on a hot dog and waving her princess light to the beat of the songs.  All the while in her Belle costume she insisted on wearing. I am so glad she did because every little girl in the place was adorned in her princess finest.  It was a treasure.

 So why this post ? Because I sat and thought during the Cinderella piece and listened to her sing her famous song – A dream is a wish your heart makes – as Paige sang along knowing word for word.  I sat and cried , I cry a lot when it comes to Paige and her innocence and her zest for life and her overall excitement just to spend time with her Zia (that’s me) – I promised myself that I will continue to agvocate not only for my fellow aggies and for my family and our farm but for this little girl who has so much potential to do so many amazing things !  She believes all things are possible and that no matter what is handed to you , you will overcome it , you just have to believe.

Revel in the Good ~ #godmadeafarmer

Today my post is quite simple ~


Take a moment to revel in the good ~ celebrate for a minute the limelight ~ cherish who we are, the life we know and at times have a hard time expressing to our off farm friends ~ it doesnt happen on national TV very often~ take the time to enjoy it ~ to just be 

....................................                   God Made a Farmer